Up until recently, I was a divorced 40 year old with a career and no kids.  My nights were filled with books and wine.  I had an awakening though.  I started using the internet to meet people.  It was slow at first and I didn’t like it.  Then I started to figure out a system and the way it works.  I found a variety of different websites out there.  Then it became easier and easier for me.  I went from having one date a month to one date a week to presently, a couple dates a week.  I’m starting to wonder if I’m addicted because it has become so easy for me to get dates and I go on a lot of them.

I’m not just looking for free booze and free food.  I pay my way always on the first date.  So if the guy doesn’t have a good time, at least he only wasted his time and not his money.  And I don’t want to come off as a whore either.  Although…

Throughout this process I discovered that I have a vagina and it works and things make it feel good.  The thing is, I can’t tell anyone about all of this.  My family, my friends, my co-workers… they’re all vanilla people.  Hence the “closet internet dater” title.  I keep thinking someone is going to recognize me from a site.  But until then, this is where I’m going to let it all out.


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  1. Why don’t you have an email here? lol So I like your blog! And I just joined this blogger community for dating and thought I’d share 😛 http://www.atomicreach.com/tribe/itsadate it’s kind of cool… once there are people! Some of the other tribes on there look great… except this is the only dating one annd nobody was in it til I joined 😛

  2. Hey wildchristy,

    Thanks so much for the follow and your thoughtful comment on my post “On staying positive when everyone thinks you suck”! I’m sorry it took me so long to aknowledge your comment; been going through some thangs. Anyway, I love what you’ve got going on here. Maybe I’ll learn something to use when and if I finally get a date! Thanks again and keep writing. 😀


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