I was thinking at lunch today about how being in a healthy relationship is like finding a needle in a haystack, literally. It is so rare nowadays, with so many people breaking up and hopping from one relationship to another that it makes you wonder what’s the point to even being in a relationship. You start thinking to yourself this is not a person I would want to spend the rest of my life with, then the dreadful arguments begin. The funny thing is, a lot of people think arguments and stress in a relationship are normal. That blows my mind. If that’s the case, how can we determine whether or not we are in an unhealthy relationship?
I made a list of things that I would want in partner so I would know it’s a healthy relationship.
Trust and Honesty
Enjoying Each Other’s Company
I feel dejected after reading this list. It seems like a tall order to find. Did I leave anything out?